Hi there! Happy Hump Day! Hope you are all having a great week. Mine has been pretty good, I can not complain for the most part. I did, however, get an IM yesterday that kind of irked me. Like any girl, when something irks me, I tell my friends about it. So, friends, I’m telling you.
A New IM
Now it is not uncommon for people to contact me by IM. I like it actually. It’s a great way to set up a session or even just to say HI. So when I received an IM from a person I did not know, I wasn’t surprised. But what did, surprise me and actually made me a little perturbed, was why this person contacted me. It seems this loser was given an assignment by another Mistress and he found it be too much of a humiliating thrill to handle and wanted me to void it for him. Seriously?
Drawing the Line
Those of you that know me know, I don’t just give out assignments, stroking assignments or otherwise freely. If, and that is a big if, I do give you one, I expect that it will be done. That being said, I know many of my Mistress friends do give out assignments, and I am quite respectful of them. I would never void their assignment.
I Hope He Gets What He Deserves
Now, I’ve known people to do many things our of desperation. They have begged to cum, they put any number of things in as many ways in their bitch holes and anything else I have wanted them to do. So being so desperate to try to get out of something, doesn’t bother me as much as the amount of disrespect that was shown to not only his Mistress but to me. To waste my time, trying to get out of something that his Mistress felt was appropriate but then to not even acknowledge me when I said no. I do not know who his Mistress is, but I hope she finds out what the pathetic loser tried to do and she punishes him in any way she see fit ~ I’m thinking corporeal punishment! And when she does, I would like to watch ~ LOL
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
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Miss Kay Marie, I wonder if the same loser that can’t handle his assignments and asks you to void them is the one who asks me the same via IM! I do not void assignments because I refuse to undermine another Mistress and her hard work. To any non-Mistress reading this: you get what you ask for! If you make yourself available to us, you better believe we’re serious. If you can’t stand the heat, get out of the kitchen!
Oh Ms. Kay Marie!
I totally agree with both you and Ms. Amber. I also have been asked before in IM and email to void assignments, and my answer is always NO! Like you and Ms. Amber I would NEVER EVER undermine another Mistress. I do hope that naughty subby gets exactly what he deserves. Grrr indeed!
Ms. Delia
Mistress Kay,
As a Sissy Assistant, I’m saddened by the news of these IM time wasters. When they do this, they take up the Mistress time to spend with their more LOYAL devotees.
I’m not at all surprised Miss Kay wants this Loser Punished! Public Spanking if I had my way.
Don’t Irk the Mistresses.
Devotion to Miss Kay. XXX
Ditto on the first two. One of the things I love about being an LDW Mistress is the bond of solidarity that we share. The respect is there among us, and I think we can reasonably expect each other to support one another. On the flip side we know that submissives are inherently weak. Surely we can’t expect them to be held to OUR standards. If one of my subs came sneaking around to you to have an assignment voided, I’m pretty certain I’d hear about it. Oh how the feathers would fly.
Ms Amber ~ Can I tell you I had more than one contact me with a guilty conscience thinking it was them! One was a little nasty about it! LOL
Ms Delia ~ Like I said, if I know who their Mistress is, I will definitely ask her how to proceed. But I have not nor will not ever void an assignment! DON’T ASK – lol
Oh my little sissy assistant ~ Well put – Don’t Irk the Mistresses!!
Ms Alexis ~ You can bet that sexy ass of yours you’d hear about it! I outed one that was feeling a little guilty thinking the post was about them! Subs might not have our standards but I will not lower mine. My fellow Mistresses do not just have my respect as Mistresses but also as friends. I just ask, I want to know how those feathers fly! LOL
Dear Mistress Kay Marie,
I agree with you, Mistress Delia, and Mistress Amber. As a sexually submissive male that calls in from time to time to have sessions, I am paying, and I have received very good customer service and attention from the mistresses that I have spoken with. First, they do work hard, and they have made every effort to understand me. Then, they do NOT judge me, because of my interests in guided masturbation, various fetishes, CBT, tease and denial, and orgasm denial.
I think that this IMer wants to just be a free loader – or release a load, when he is NOT supposed to! If he signed up for a program and has a difficulty, then he should express his concerns to the mistress he is working with. To go to another mistress and undermine the 1st mistress is very disrespectful. To call different mistresses for paid sessions is one thing, but being in a program, “complaining” to another mistress, and NOT carrying through instructions is perturbing to me also, because I am paying for sessions, and this IMer just wants to free load and get out of something. Last, I feel that the LDW mistresses have been respectful toward me, and I owe them respect.
Yes! Some corporal punishment, which should also include several hard strokes to his balls, is what he would really deserve! Maybe he should just get lost!
Thank you for this post!
Maybe his Mistress actually assigned him to contact you to inquire about having that very assignment voided. Maybe she figured that the ensuing confusion would be fitting punishment for his past transgressions. If so he might have done well to simply inquire as to whether there was an expiration date on the assignment. After all, contacting you doesn’t seem to have worked out very well for him. Sometimes its just best to “wait it out”.
{tongue in cheek}
You are more thank welcome. I can see from your response your Mistress has obviously trained you right!!
Lenas ~ Interesting point. And you are correct, it did not work out very well for him. But truthfully, I think he got what he deserved! LOL