In honor of Locktober–which, as you know, is a month near and dear to my heart–I want to talk to you today about chastity cages. The following are my thoughts on them. This will be a bit of a free-form post, as I have many thoughts about chastity cages. But I promise, it’ll all make sense at the end.
Reasons For Male Chastity
There are a number of reasons to lock a man’s cock up in male chastity. Some Mistresses use chastity cages for punishment, for instance. If you’ve been touching yourself without permission, they might use chastity as a way to discipline you for breaking the rules.
Other Mistresses may lock you up because you have a small cock. They may be of the opinion that all small ones should be locked away so that they don’t disappoint some poor lady. Still other Mistresses may think that dicks simply belong in cages, and that’s why they like to lock them up.
All these reasons for putting a guy into chastity are good. I just happen to come at it from a slightly different angle.
Why I’m Picky About Assigning Chastity Cages
I am actually rather picky about assigning you guys chastity cages. In my last Locktober post, I reiterated once again that I only lock guys up in chastity if they beg me to do so. (If you want to learn more about my reasoning there, feel free to check out that post.)
The thing is, the people who I have found that have the most success with chastity are those who requested it for themselves. The ones who want it the most are the ones who approach me with the idea. That’s not to say that I don’t enjoy chastity for punishment purposes sometimes or that I am opposed to locking a guy away because he has a small dick. I’ve been known to do those things, too, especially in the short-term.
But long-term? I find that the best experiences come from guys who know what they want. They want me to lock them in a chastity cage, so they beg me for the privilege of being locked away. And if they beg me long enough and hard enough, I grant their wish.
Chastity Is Extreme Cock Control
But, yes, this is why I’m picky: I prefer the decision to be yours. Now, once you make the decision to be locked up, you have to understand that that’s the last decision you’ll ever be making about your cock. That’s how cock control with a Mistress works, of course.
And make no mistake about it: Chastity is extreme cock control. Chastity is cock control taken to the utmost end of the spectrum. It’s the apex of cock control. It’s cock control taken to its logical (but intense) conclusion.
But most practitioners of male chastity will tell you that there’s nothing more rewarding than being locked up to please your Mistress. Very few chastity guys are sad sacks who are upset about being locked up. Most of them are very enthusiastic about it and will happily tell you anything you want to know about their time in lockdown.
Whether chastity is ultimately for you or not is something only you can decide. Until then, keep learning about chastity, chastity cages, and extreme, long-term orgasm denial. The decision must never be made lightly. So take it seriously, and keep what I’ve had to say today about chastity in mind. It’s a very personal, individual thing. And I want you to make absolutely certain of your choice before you make the final leap into your chastity cage for me.
What are you guys’ opinions on chastity? Is it for you? Not for you? Something you’re curious about? Tell me what’s on your mind this Locktober.



I’ve never done chastity before but seeing how you and the other mistresses lock/dress and keep sissies dressed as girls is hot!!! Of you were to do this to me I’d be your chastity helpless submissive sissy girl!!!
Dear Mistress Kay Marie, you know I adore your posts. I love your mature views on chastity and on femdom in general. They are so close to my heart! Yes, I love being able to be chaste. I love the idea of letting my Mistress control me but I also love it as a form of pushing boundaries. I wouldn’t want to be caged for life, but I like it as a form of submission to my Mistress, as an expression of my love and devotion to her. This year I have successfully completed locktober in manual chastity and continue in NNN. Unfortunately, since I don’t have my Mistress, I decided to end the use in December, but it has been an extremely rewarding experience. It’s such a paradox and I love paradoxes. I find the idea of not being able to satisfy myself extremely arousing.
Thank you for this post of yours! Have a wonderful day!