This is the first blog in what will be a regularly featured topic.
Recently I have found I have been spending a lot of time with a few of my favorite my cuckold husbands. Ironically the conversations have been a little one sided – and by that I mean, they have been doing most of the talking. The cuckolds all have been quite excited over talking about their cuckold lifestyle and what they get out of it. Now, I am sure each has their own reasons for entering into the lifestyle and their own feelings on their role. Here is my take on some of what they have shared.
How Some Cucks View their Wives
First, I want to say, unanimously all the husbands I have an overwhelming amount of love and adoration for their wives. It is because of this, they enter into the cuckold lifestyle. They simply want the best for their hot wife. What husband doesn’t want that? One even put it as point blank as – she deserve a cock that can satisfy her and I do not have one. Another, described how deeply happy he was to see his wife pleasured in ways he was not capable of with his small cock and she just has a glow to her she never had before.
How Some Cucks View Themselves
I’m sure to an outsider cuckolds may look pathetic or as though they are living in denial – all they are doing is being openly cheated on and lying to themselves so they feel better about it. I can honestly say, that is the last impression I get from any of them. For many, this is the first time they have been a part of something sexual that actually pleasured their wife and that alone excites them. Think about it for a minute. Do you get hard from watching porn? Well imagine if you were right there, in the room. Yes, some may see them as only their wife’s fluffer. And more than a few love taking an active roll and sucking that big cock to get it hard. (I personally like to suck a big cock so I see the appeal – lol) For others, eating the creampie is their treat. And of course, there are those cucks that love to have what their wife has – that big hard cock fucking them.
How Some Cucks View The Bulls
I personally do not like the term “bull.” (I am partial to lover) However, I use it because it is the term my cuckold friends use and they do so with pride. To the husbands, these cuckold bulls are not a threat. They are not there to take their place or steal their wives. They do something the cuckolds themselves cannot do – and that is satisfy their wives and fuck them in ways the husbands couldn’t imagine – and for that they are not only grateful but turned aroused. For those husbands that are fucked by their bulls ~ they get the bonus plan. What is most striking to the cucks about the bulls, is the confidence ~ not cockiness ~ in the way they carry themselves. The bulls know they can do what the the husbands have no way of doing without them. That confidence garners respect.
Regardless of how or why it happened, I haven’t talked to a cuckold yet that is unhappy with the situation. As a matter of fact, they can’t say enough about how happy they are with it! And for that reason, I will definitely be writing about this often.
xoxo,
Ms Kay
I did not at first “get” cuckolding. I also do not think I have ever been a “full fledged” cuckold. However, I have long been excited about hearing girls talk about guys they were interested in or seeing or dating and how many girls (all?) seek out alpha guys. It was initially a bit painful (well still is) to hear girls talk with admiration or excitement about well endowed guys and just hear how they were valued (for lack of a better word). It still stings of course. But I also think there is an excitement part because it lets you be closer to her satisfaction and her pleasure (even if you wish it was you). It is this pleasure/pain combination. It lets you be at least a little bit of her world?
In the proper lover-wife-cuckold relationship, there is no threat to the cuckolds, you are right. A cuckold needs to be able to keep himself neutral about everything and not be emotionally involved or insecure. It’s just sex and if he can’t give it, he just needs to step back and accept that. True love means making sure your wife has what she needs.
A few of the cuckolds I talk to had a bumpy beginning when first adapting to the arrangement, but once a wife knows how to get what she requires, her husband needs to learn take it and like it. She’ll do it with or without you! Most cuckolds I talk to love the life, and revel in the dominance of their spouse. They should!
Wonderful insightful post on cuckoldry Ms Kay Marie! Cuckolding is a tight rope lifestyle that few can walk successfully. I’d have to agree with Ms. Amber’s comment also that in many hot wife situations it literally is just scratching an itch with no emotions involved. A cuckold’s ability to detach from the fear of emotional entanglement between the bull and his wife or gf is paramount to making the whole dynamic work.
Ms Amber~ I couldn’t agree more on all counts. If there is any real emotion involved it is the cucks love for his wife – look at what I am providing (not doing) for her – she deserves this!
Great post Ms. Kay and thanks for sharing your thoughts on one of my favorite topics. I agree with most of the commenters here, there is no threat with a true cuckold relationship. Even the humiliation that is doled out, even when it seems cruel or harsh, is done out of love and is something the submissive husband enjoys and even craves most of the time.
Well said ! I think you truly get what makes a cuck – Mistress/Wife relationship tick! It’s about adoring our Mistress and putting her needs first. I hope there is a lucky cuck out there who is allowed the privilege of serving you!!