Mistress Kay Marie
Hi Everyone! Hope you have all had a good week and are ready for a “super” weekend. (Yes, that is my shameless attempt at some Superbowl humor – lol.) I will be on Super MILF duties once again (ok that is just as bad – lol), but wanted to share with you something that has been on my mind the last couple of days before I hit the road. Pain and pleasure. Pleasure and pain. I don’t think they are opposites, I think they go hand in hand. And it seems as though I am not the only one. More than once this week I have spent some quality time with a few friends who happen to share my opinion. Or at least they enjoy how I play with the two!
My favorite way to play with my subbies who like pain? Edging followed pain. Whether that pain is CBT, nipple play (a fav), clothes pins (another of my favs) implement play ~ or any combination of them all. The one constant ~ the pain increases with the pleasure. For example, one edge equals one strike. Second edge, two strikes. You get the idea. I often wonder, which do they crave more ~ the pleasure or the increased pain? One kept begging to edge again and again. I know for a fact it wasn’t because they thought they would impress me or that there was a chance that they would get to cum. That pain slut just wanted another fix.
Now, here’s a little confession, I like some pain with my pleasure. Ok, I like it ALOT!! Spankings ~ Oh, I love a bare hand on my ass. I think it looks quite lovely in various shades of pink – lol. And nipple play? There is nothing like not being able to face the water in the shower for two days.
Want some pain with your pleasure?? You know who to call.
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
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Ooooo I love nipple torture but how do you get them so sore that the water in the shower hurts when it touches my nipples ?
Not gonna lie, Mistress; I don’t have a lot of experience with pain play. I have been able to dabble a little, though. It would be WONDERFUL to play with You; since You like to receive as well as give, it would be a fantastic time of back and forth 😀
“The one constant ~ the pain increases with the pleasure.”
Early 20s, me and my best friend went camping near the Russian River. We went walking in one of the tributary creeks looking for Foothill Yellow-legged Frogs. We took off our shoes to walk in the creek.
Parts of the creek bottom had the most jagged rocks I had ever felt, parts had the silkiest silt I had ever felt. With jagged rocks cut up our feet, the silt soothed them.
My friend, he hated it – but me I loved it. I loved the jagged rocks because I knew the pain my feet were feeling as the rocks cut into them increased the pleasure my feet felt when we got to a part of the creek that was silky silt on the bottom.
I didn’t understand at the time, I thought I was a weird freak for wanting the pain because of the pleasure, but now I understand.
The pain may increase with the pleasure, but the pleasure increases because of the pain.
Pain and pleasure are truly a delicious combination in deed Ms. Kay. That portion of pleasure, like stroking and edging, can be such a soother after some CBT or nipple play… it reminds me of cooling skin after applying heat… such a fabulous contrast!!!