Since we just finished this year’s Stroke-A-Thon, I keep trying to think of different ways for you guys to improve your masturbation, and what keeps coming to mind is anal play with stroking. Often, you’ll see blog posts about one or the other of these things. But it’s less often that you see them written about in combination. And I think that’s too bad because I believe they’re best enjoyed together. And I think you’ll agree with me after you try it for yourself.
So that’s what today’s blog post is going to be about–convincing you to give it a shot!
Stroking Is Great By Itself
As I’m sure you already know, unless you’ve been living under a rock all this time, stroking alone is wonderful. It makes your cock feel so good, especially once you really learn what you enjoy most.
And then, if you get into guided masturbation, you’ll find it gets even more enjoyable. That’s because you get to really experiment and try new things to find out what really makes you feel good! (This is one of the reasons I love guided masturbation so much. I love introducing guys to new things that make them rock-hard.)
Anal Play Is Fun Alone, Too
Of course, if you’ve ever gotten into anal play, you know that can be lots of fun, too. There are all kinds of toys out there that you can use in your ass. Or you can just use your fingers if you prefer (or if you’re in a pinch). There are also plenty of different kinds of lubes out there to keep everything nice and slippery. (I recommend silicone lube, unless you’re using silicone toys. If you don’t like lube, I recommend coconut oil, which is my personal choice.)
One reason anal play feels so good is that the anus is full of nerve endings. And anything that happens down there that’s not inherently painful is interpreted by the brain as pleasure. And that’s great for you anal play enthusiasts!
The other reason it feels so good is, of course, the prostate. Prostate play, according to most men I’ve known who’ve tried it, is in a league all by itself. It’s a transcendent sort of pleasure that can result in a full-on prostate orgasm in some men.
But Anal Play With Stroking Is Best!
So it sort of makes sense, if you think about it, that anal play with stroking is the best of both worlds. You get the fantastic pleasure that stroking gives along with the mind-blowing sensations of anal play. It’s the best recipe for an orgasm that I know, personally.
But if you’ve never tried anal play with stroking–especially if you’ve never done anything anal at all–I can see where it might be a little intimidating. And this is where I say, “Small steps!” You definitely don’t have to take a monster 10-inch dildo your first time. In fact, trying that would be the epitome of stupid. And you guys aren’t stupid, are you?
What you should do instead is grab some lube–actual lube, not lotion–and use your fingers to do some exploring. Rub the outside of your anus for awhile before you ever try to insert anything. Then, when you do hit the insertion point, just use the tip of your index finger. Go slowly, use lots of lube, and just be sensible about the whole thing.
Once you’re accustomed to that, you can go whole hog and do anal play with stroking. It may take a little practice to get to where you can play with both areas at the same time. But it’ll be worth it once it happens, I promise!
If you’d like some help combining anal play with stroking, you know what to do. Give me, Ms. Kay Marie, a call, and I’ll be happy to assist you. You can also leave me a comment to let me know what you think of anal play with stroking. Talk to you soon!
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
