Are you one of those guys who loves to be submissive to your Mistress? Now, I’m sure most of you will say “Yes” to this question, or else you probably wouldn’t be here reading this blog, right? But there are many different kinds of submissives, just as there are many different kinds of Mistresses.
The kind of subs I’m addressing today are those of you with no particular fetish, other than serving your Mistress in any way I desire. I know that in this blog, I tend to lean toward writing about different fetishes. And there’s nothing wrong with having fetishes, by the way. It’s just that sometimes, the submissive guys get overlooked in favor of fetish fun times. So today’s blog is going to try to rectify that a little bit.
There Are So Many Ways For A Sub To Serve
If you’re the kind of guy who loves to be submissive to your Mistress, the truth is, there are lots of different ways that you can serve me. I’m a Femdom of many interests, so there’s not much out there that I won’t accept as service. I find it intriguing, the various things that subs use as a form of service, honestly.
For instance, you’ve got the guys who love to pamper and worship my body as a form of service to me. I love those guys! I think every dominant woman loves to be treated like a Goddess from time to time. In fact, I’d say most women in general enjoy it. So naturally, the worshippers make wonderful submissives for me!
Service Through Sacrifice
Maybe you like being submissive to your Mistress, but being a worshipper isn’t really your thing. That’s okay! There are lots of other ways you can serve. And one of the more common ways is what I call “service through sacrifice.”
The guys who enjoy this type of service like offering themselves up for my pleasure. Maybe they’re submitting to pain (like CBT). Or maybe they’re submitting to denial, as in the case with my chastity subs), or maybe it’s more about submitting to humiliation. Whatever it may be, these kinds of subs show their devotion through sacrificing some part of themselves to me.
They might let me spank them to satisfy my sadistic streak. Or they might submit to lots of orgasm control and denial. Or they may even like to be degraded in some way. All of these are good and valid ways to be submissive to your Mistress.
How Do You Like Being Submissive To Your Mistress?
Now, these are just a few of the ways a man can be submissive to me. There are tons of other ways, too. As long as you’re acting for my pleasure above yours, you can say that you’re being submissive to your Mistress.
So I’m curious: In what ways do you like to serve in this manner? Do you enjoy pampering or being humiliated? Or do you honestly not care what you have to do, as long as it’s ordered by me?
I love subs who like bringing a smile to my face. They always make my day whenever they come around. Fetishes are great, but so are guys who only want to serve. I wouldn’t trade those guys for anything!
Do you think you fall in this category of always wanting to be submissive to your Mistress? If so, tell me more. I’d love to hear it. In what ways do you serve? How long have you had this desire to serve in this way? What are the qualities you look for in a Mistress that you’re interested in serving? Give me a call or drop me a comment to tell me more!
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
Sometimes it’s hard to know myrself. This is probably a long story, I’ll try to keep it short.
I love being able to show attention to a woman, to shower her with my love and devotion. I love worshipping the female body, I love various fetishes, like controlling my orgasm, playing with the chastity cage, etc. There is probably no point in naming them all rather I want to focus on BDSM as a lifestyle.
I used to think I was only submissive in the sex area and in everyday life I was neither dominant nor submissive, just neutral. But over the last few years I’m finding that everything is connected and I can’t quite separate the two. On the one hand, I can’t imagine living 24/7 as a slave who has to ask to go for a drink for example and has only to walk on all fours at home in the presence of his Mistress and on the other hand, I’m becoming more and more aware that my wife decides everything of substance (Even if she consults me on everything) and I’m actually comfortable with that. So at the moment I have it set up so that she has the final say and I’m happy to oblige because I know she likes it and I love her and also because I feel she loves me too… if I didn’t feel that respect and the sympathy wasn’t there, I wouldn’t be submissive to her. I hope you understand. I’ll do anything for her because she knows where my boundaries are. If only she was more into the fetish as well, which so far she’s not that much…
I wrote something about it in my last blog on EE…
Thank you Ms Kay Marie, I love reading your blogs… Have a wonderful time I look forward to seeing you again at your podcast.
Submissive doesn’t work real well for me in real life. That’s why I turn to the lovely ladies of LDW. I still want to do pretty vanilla non-fetishy things,but its fun to roleplay with a sexually aggressive partner calling the shots and throwing in a surprise or two
I’m so turned on by taking a submissive’s kinks, fetishes, and desires, and using them to control him, that I’m often at a loss when a man comes to Me and says his only kink is “submission”. It seems like such a broad umbrella! Further complicated by the fact that O/ur connection is mostly virtual!
But you’ve inspired Me, Miss Kay, to give this some deeper thought. How *can* I put those guys to use whose only fetish is submitting to a woman?
Thank you!