Can you have a real connection with a phone sex Mistress? I believe you can. Now, don’t get me wrong here. I’m not saying it would replace all the other relationships in your life–no one relationship ever should!–but can you have a relationship with a phone sex Mistress? The simple answer is yes!
How To Connect With A Phone Sex Mistress
So, yes, I do think you can have a real connection with a phone sex Mistress. The hard part is finding one that’s right for you. There are many of us out here, and unfortunately, you’re not going to mesh 100% with everyone. So it’s up to you to determine what qualities are important to you in a Mistress and sort of do the work to find the right one!
Let me give you a little advice, though. The very first thing you should do is to make sure the Mistress you’re interested in does the kinds of sessions you want. Even if everything else matches up perfectly, if your fetishes are not similar, then you’re going to be disappointed. And you don’t want that! So definitely make sure the Mistress in question is into at least some of the same things you’re into. Not all Mistresses do all sessions, which is perfectly fine. It’s her prerogative to do the sessions she enjoys. So just try to make sure your fetishes match up pretty well.
A Femdom’s Personality Is Also Important
Another very important thing to consider is personality. Even if you love the way she looks or sounds (or she loves strap on play as much as you do), you might not be a good fit with your individual personalities. And that’s okay, too. It’s best to find someone whose temperament complements yours.
For instance, you should think about whether you prefer a strict Mistress or a sensual one. Some phone sex Mistresses can be a little of both, even. But it’s important for you to decide if you want someone who is stern or someone who is more lenient on you. Personally, I am a little of both, so if you’d like a taste of both sides, then I can probably help you out with that.
What Do You Like When It Comes To Communication?
You should also think about what you like when it comes to communication. Do you like to email regularly between calls? If so, reach out via email and find out what your potential phone sex Mistress’s policies on emails are. Or even better, place a short call. This call is not to have a session, but to explore each other personalities and see how well the two of you get along. Getting to know each other is great for finding out if a phone sex Mistress is for you. I promise, it’s worth the time and effort.
Finally, I have one last suggestion for you. This one may seem a little silly, but it does matter. Check your schedules. Make sure the times you’d like to call are the times your would-be Mistress is available. This will save a lot of annoyance down the road.
So, yes, I truly believe that with communication, honesty, and a little effort, you can have a real, rewarding relationship with a phone sex Mistress. What do you guys think? As always, I’d love to hear from you about your opinions and thoughts on the subject, so drop me a comment or give me a call. I’ll talk to you soon!
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
Relationships are vital in life.Every relationship offers something different.It is very possible to find a two way caring relationship with LDW.The human connection is so important and it can grow with an LDW mistress.It is awesome when there is so much fun and and growing relationship.
Ms Kay Marie these are all very good points! The fella’s would be wise to listen to your suggestions! Your last suggestion isn’t silly at all, it’s very important! How disappointing is it to find someone who is a good fit but your schedules don’t mesh! I think it’s great the guys can go on your schedule pages and get a good idea of when to find you!
Another good point, a VERY GOOD POINT: When interested in more about you, or any Mistress take the leap place a short call and get to know each other before playtime!
Great post, Miss Kay!
That’s one of the reasons I love the Mistress Recommendation feature over on The Daily Cock. It gives a potential playmate the opportunity to give some thought to what he’s really looking for, and to ask for it. And if he finds a certain Mistress intriguing before even filling that out, he can still use the questions asked there to know what to ask Her about, how to state his needs.
I’m very gratified by the playmates with whom I’ve developed a real bond over time, so My answer to the question posed by your title is definitely yes. But you’ve pointed out the important fact that it depends on compatibility, just like any other relationship!
Well said. The relationship I built–over years–with a beloved LDW mistress who has moved along has been one of the most meaningful in my life. I still think about the advice she would likely provide in a given situation.
That is a beautiful statement. I am happy you had that connection ~ and obviously still do!