Ms Kay Marie
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Recently I have spent a lot of time sharing some useful information with my crossdressing sissies. At the urging of one in particular, I would like to share some of the things we have discussed. LDS this is for you!
Some of you need to keep things under wraps
I completely understand that not every crossdresser can get their girl on whenever they want. Some can almost never openly wear their killers heels, favorite bra, prettiest panties or slip into anything silky and sexy. For you, just sharing your crossdressing desires with a Mistress is all you can do sometimes. I want you to share them with me. Maybe we can just spend some time talking about what you love most. One of my favorite on going conversations with LDS always includes an update on one of the ladies’s wardrobe from the office. Many times when you can’t live out your fantasies you live vicariously through others.
Fear of getting caught
Some, no matter how deep the desire, can never be open. The fear of getting caught with panties on is very real. I have spent much time putting thought into how to incorporate something feminine into the daily lives of my sissies. (and some creative hiding places ~ but we’ll save that for another time) Some have taken the step to start wearing panties under their boxers or a lace cami under their proper dress shirt. A few, the lucky few, completely shed their “dude costumes” at the door at the end of the day. Once that part of their lives is over for the day, they spend the rest of their time, in a short slip, stockings, and everything else that makes them feel as pretty on the outside as they are on the inside.
Where to begin
A few of my sissy friends, have confessed all their girlie desires but have admitted that they do not know where to start. Here are a few of my personal tips for beginning crossdressers. First, get out there and see what you like. If you can’t actually go to the mall as stroll around with that pretty pink striped bag, do a little window shopping online. Take some time to research fits and styles. Next time you see one of the 5 for whatever sales ~ get one of each in a different style and try them out. You might find that the one that you loved isn’t very comfortable and the ones you didn’t think you’d like at all, fits like a glove! Bras are complicated. They are pretty and sexy but honestly they are designed for tits so finding on that fits can be challenging to some. My suggestion ~ try a bralette. You can get the lace and silkiness in all the colors you want. And for a bonus, you can even wear one under your dude costume if you want.
I hope you have found some of these ideas helpful or even a little inspirational. Together, I do not doubt if we put out pretty little heads together we can’t find a way for you to get your girl on as much as you can ~ even if you are a suit wearing master of the universe like my LDS.
Hugs,
Ms Kay
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I’d love to find women for real that likes to dress guys! I dress at home as well to call mistresses to have them get me off. I’ve gone to Victoria’s Secret many times buying bras/slips/lipstick/perfume/blush/lotions. At salon with ladies wearing boots with tight leggings is so hot:( I want to wear that! For me dressing in bra/slip/heels with blush/perfume/lotion/lipstick along with hot dress or yoga pants with girlish sweater is only way I can get hard and off. I know I’m not boyfriend material if I like to dress as girl. Women’s clothes are better then guy clothes and if love to wear more women’s clothes everyday, but as you said it’s fear of getting caught or worse:(
Wonderful post Ms Kay. I agree the place to start is online for all tentative crossdressers. It takes a lot of “balls” to start on the sissy cd journey. The fear of being caught is very real and very frightening. If sissy lives alone, the threat is less. I know a gurl that has a storage rental complete with dress rack and vanity. That’s one way to keep sissies treasured finds.
Peter ~ There are women out there. And until one is lucky enough to find you, you have your Mistresses. I know it is hard. You continue to get your girl on whenever you want! I’m loving the leggings this year myself. Just got a pair to go with a new pair of boots and a tunic sweater.
Ms Cassandra ~ What a wonderful idea to have the storage unit as a dressing room. Not to just have everything in boxes buried. I will definitely pass that one along. Thank you for sharing. I think it helps with the fear for some to know that they are not alone in how they are feeling.
Your right MsKayMarie!!!i can call mistresses whenever I want and dress whenever I want!!! That’s the plus side of being single and not having to deal with women who aren’t into this. For me I’ll go shopping to Victoria’s Secret and hope to get caught. If not it’s win win. Ms Olivia said you have to go about your business as most if not all salesgirls have strict policies. The sane goes at salon I go to also the women are there to eat lunch, make money and go home. If I don’t get caught I can always call mistresses when I get home and they can get me off.