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Hi there, everyone who’s locked into male chastity for Locktober. And also hello to those of you who are lucky enough to be free! Today’s topic is going to be lube. What kind of lubrication do you like to use?

Now, it may seem a little cruel that I’m talking about lube during Locktober. But we both know that you’ll need a lot of it when I finally allow you to come out. Who knows when I may choose to do that? It may be at the end of Locktober. It may be after No-Nut November. Or it might be even longer than that. But I don’t plan on keeping you in there forever (probably), so you will eventually need some lube at some point.

Just Because You’re Locked Up In Male Chastity Doesn’t Mean You Don’t Need Lube

Besides, the truth is, there are multiple ways to use lube. Just because your penis is locked away in male chastity doesn’t mean you won’t need it for other things. Prostate milking is very important when it comes to keeping men in male chastity healthy. So you’ll definitely be needing some lube for your weekly milking! This can involve fingers, toys, or both.

And then there’s also just toy play for fun to consider, too. Perhaps you could fuck yourself for my amusement while you’re in male chastity. Or maybe I could fuck you with my strap on? Either one could turn out to be really exciting, honestly.

What Is Your Favorite Type Of Lubrication?

In my experience, the type of lube that men use varies wildly. First, you’ve got the clueless guy, who just uses spit, which is not what you’d call a good lube by any stretch of the imagination. It’s not made out of the right stuff, and it dries much too quickly. The slightly more sophisticated guy may choose something he already has at home, like lotion or baby oil. These are a little bit better, but still not ideal.

The more sex-savvy guy will buy an actual bottle of lube meant for sexual use. This tends to be a lot safter because the ingredients in it were meant to be used on delicate areas. There are three different types of commercial lube: water-based, oil-based, and silicone-based.

Different Types Of Lube

Water-based lube includes things like KY Jelly and Astroglide. I would say the most common type of lube out there is water-based lube. It’s easy to find and convenient, and it works well enough. One drawback of it, though, is that it has to be reapplied multiple times if you’re using it for any length of time because it soaks into the skin.

Oil-based lube includes both commercial preparations and things like coconut oil, which is actually my personal favorite kind of lube. Yes, coconut oil like you get at the grocery store. It feels great. It smells wonderful. And it leaves my skin feeling extra-soft (and also easily doubles as a massage oil). The only thing you need to remember about oil-based lube is that you should never use it with condoms because it damages them on structural level.

And finally, there’s silicone-based lube, which is a little less common. The good thing about it, however, is that it doesn’t absorb into the skin like water-based lube does. It’s also safe for use with condoms and doesn’t cause skin irritation. But don’t use it with your silicone toys because it will damage them.

So you tell me, male chastity wearers–what type of lube do you prefer? Do you have different preferences when it comes to stroking or anal play? Do you use something specific when in male chastity? Tell me about your lube choices, either over the phone or in the comments. I’m genuinely curious!

Until next time!


Ms Kay Marie