Ms Kay Marie
Hi Everyone! Hope you are all having a good week. I am still enjoying a reprieve from the winter weather although I will admit I’m still adjusting to springing forward – lol. Ugh – the time change always messes me up for a bit. The one thing I do tend to start when my sleep is messed up over the next week or so is my spring cleaning. Might seem like an odd topic to discuss with you but trust me, you’ll understand why I thought I would share.
Sissy Calls in a State
Last evening I was in bed reading trying to get to sleep at a decent hour. My MILF duties start early and I need my beauty sleep. So I was rather rattled when my phone rang. (No it wasn’t a booty call you dirty minded sluts!) It was my friend and wow was she in a state. So, as a good friend I got cup, poured a glass of wine and settled in to listen.
Sissy Starts a Purge
My friend is not unlike many of you. She is a sissy. A completely undercover secret sissy. And last night, she was going through a sissy purge. That’s right, that extreme type of spring cleaning. Now I understand, really I do. Recently I have been cleaning out the last remnants of things from an ex. However, purging to try to deny who and what you are is never a good idea and rarely, if ever, works. Even if you can manage to actually make yourself put the things in the trash, you stand a good chance trying to get them out before they are picked up! And dumpster diving just is not sexy fun!
Sissy is in a Better Place
After only two glasses of wine, an empty box of tissues on her end and some quick calculating on how much sleep I was going to get, I believe I left her in a better place. Sometimes it is good to clear some things out. Maybe those that have bad memories, and if you were to look in my trash, that is what you would find. I could even understand getting rid of the things that you bought when you didn’t understand sizing or know your style. My friend is, even though she is still a closet sissy and does not plan to change that, comfortable with who and what she is ~ and she should be because she is totally fabulous. (not to mention she has great taste in friends ~ moi!! lol) Although, I’m sure there could still be another purge somewhere in the future I would like to think there’s at least it is a chance that there won’t.
By the way, I received a text around lunch time today, and as expected she has started her spring shopping binge to follow that purge. I’m sure my next call will be when the packages arrive and she gets to try on everything all excited and the despair from the purge all but forgotten.
Until next time
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
I think I might…sort of…finally “get” the idea of “sissy” – being or feeling like one. I used to think it was a more extreme word or feeling than I could have. Females though can bring out deeper parts of a guy. Oddly, and very simply I had a female friend say to me once “How’s my little girl”? It “hit” me very deeply. I don’t expect she even knew. For me a shock ran through. It was like landing on Mars or something. You sort of cannot believe you are there and it is scary to explore. Somehow though you know your reaction to a pair of panties is not what every guys is. It’s a need.
Excellent post, Ms. KayMarie! The cycle of purging and rebuying is very real in the world of sissies, and like you, I always try to do my part to reaffirm my sissies’ identities and desires. You can throw away the clothes, but you’ll never truly purge who you are. It’s a process of acceptance. Between societal gender expectations and stringent cultural mores, I try to be my sissies’ source of support and encouragement. It sounds like you’re a wonderful confidante to your femme friend!
I’m so glad that you had a chance to help someone who was struggling. I have written about purging before, and it is such an ordeal. It’s so emotional, even though it might not seem so. It always centers around something that hasn’t been worked through, and sometimes, all our friends need is someone to talk to, someone who ‘gets’ it. I’m glad you do, Miss Kay Marie. Excellent post, friend.
What a great post Ms Kay Marie! I am sure your closet sissy friend, felt much better knowing she had a friend like you that could help her through what she had been through! Whatever you said or maybe you just listening to her gave her what she needed, an extra boost to be the best closet sissy ever and decided to make up for her purging! Love this post!
I’ve also run into sissies who’ve been previously had cycles of binging and purging their wardrobes–and I know I’ve helped some of them. The could be all kinds of reasons why a sissy wants to purge, but I try to help them understand that unless they’re swapping femme wardrobes with the seasons, there’s no reason for it.
You’d be hard pressed to find a guy who DOESN’T like lingerie, sissies simply have a greater appreciation for it than most–and there’s nothing wrong with loving the look and feel of beautiful things, or loving they way you look in them 🙂
I think the sissy purge is a common thing all of us Mistresses have encountered. I feel it comes down to self acceptance to be completely honest. Most of our gurls have such guilt over wearing their frilly pretties! I’m glad this sissy had you to talk to Ms. Kay Marie to keep her fabulous and feminine, great post!
Mike ~ Thank you for sharing this. I think it is great that you have such a special friend. You are very right for some it is a need.
Ms Marlena ~ Thank you! You are more than right. There is no doubt you are a wonderful source of support for your sissies.
Ms Amber ~ Thank you! Yes, we all need someone. We all need someone at some time. I’m always so happy when someone turns to me. I happen to be lucky enough to have you as a friend to call on.
Ms Gia ~ Thank you my sexy friend! I don’t think there was any magic words, just listening and stating the obvious. We all just want to be accepted for who and what we really are ~ even if it is not by everyone.
Ms Lilly ~ I couldn’t agree more what’s not to love?! And that is great advice ~ clean out seasonal or styles that you don’t like but not who you are!