Ms Kay Marie
Hi Everyone! Happy Friday! Hope this finds you well and ready for the weekend. Even though the last couple of weeks have been a bit lazy & loungey I have been noticing a reoccurring topic of conversation. Aside from shopping for some comfy clothes and playing with makeup, I’ve been talking about and looking at butt plugs. As always, I just had to share it with you.
Plug
Seems a bunch of my friends are in the mood for either their first butt plug or a new one. And I’ll be honest I have been too! That’s right, I just got a new one myself. I had so much fun using a glass juicer style plug on my little LDS I just had to have one. And my little LDS had such fun she had to share and sent me one. One of the things that struck me about this one is the weight. This pretty little plug is not bigger in anyway than others I have had but it is heavier, which I like. If you are looking for something new, stop and think about what you like and don’t like about your plug and shop with that in mind.
Play
Maybe you are completely new to anal play. If you are ~ welcome to the party!! LOL I’m sure you have heard it before but I will say it again, start slow. When I was new to anal play, it was with a partner and it started with a thumb. Same applies to solo play. Start small, go slow and try it more than once. You may find that there is a little trial and error to getting one that is just right. Oh and try adding a little anal play to your non anal play – put your plug in while you masturbate.
Smooth
So now that you have your new or your new & improved plug and are ready for some play time (and of course you have called your Mistress), I would like to make one last suggestion. Consider hair removal. Regardless of whether you are shaved, waxed, like having a full bush or a landing strip in the front get a clean slate in the back. You might not think there is much back there but trust me there is and you will notice the difference.
I would love to hear from you one this one. Please share your tips and experiences. And until next time my ass happy friends, take care.
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
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Wow! Between that close up shot of your glorious ass, and the title of this posting…you certainly have my undivided attention. Along with a few thousand horny guys! *smile* Excellent thoughts about purchasing a butt plug. Particularly the point about hair removal. That could be nasty painful otherwise. Congratulations on your new acquisition. What a thoughtful LDS.
I never get tired of anal, whether solo or with a partner. For my subs, I love to make them slip a plug in and whimper for me. But I’d be lying if I didn’t come clean about the little toys that I use alone. When you consider the variety of what’s available, how could you stay away from the opportunity to pleasure yourself? I sure as hell can’t, and my callers are even bigger butt sluts than I am!
Start slow! I can’t emphasize that enough. I can’t tell you how many guys are all revved up about the idea of exploring anal play and then find themselves frustrated because they can’t fit some massive toy up their bum on the first go. Anal is a delicate undertaking. It can be LOTS of fun but only if you take the time to do it properly. Great post!
I just went smooth as you said… You’re right. There is a difference. All that left now is to submit to you, Mistress Kay-Marie!!! Soon…
Love shopping for new toys Ms KayMarie, so much fun and so enjoyable. There are so many different kinds of butt plugs, and picking out the right size is important. Anal play can be so pleasurable if done properly. I love helping a man explore anal play for the first time, making sure he knows the importance of using a good lube and just relaxing.
Ms Violet ~ I so love having your undivided attention!! I just love a waxed ass!! My LDS is so good to me. If he had a real size cock he would be perfect – lol.
Ms Amber ~ I can share with you one of my little secrets, my one anal vib is one one of fav toys!!
Ms Alexis ~ I couldn’t agree more. I can’t tell you how many times some newbie tried to insist on some huge thing only to get frustrated that it won’t work! You are so right ~ is delicate and it takes time to do it properly and then it is LOTS of fun!
Chast4Her ~ I so love smooth. I you will love to submit. Soon is good! Sooner is better! Now is best!
Ms Cooper ~ We must get together and compare notes on shopping. Or better yet, shop together!! Relaxing ~ that is a key!!
I’ve enjoyed introducing my fiance to anal play–and I definitely second everything mentioned here–start slow, start small, prep, and relax (and never forget the lube). One thing I’ve noticed is the toys we use change depending on what we’re doing–glass is when I’m gently teasing and manually working the toy; softer crystal jellies are great to prep, and firmer, heavier silicone toys are perfect when I want to pound his ass with my strap-on 🙂