Ms Kay Marie
Hi Everyone! Hope this finds you all having a great week. I have been crazy busy lately and finally sat down the other day to watch a few things on my DVR. One of the shows on my list is the Bruce Jenner Interview. I decided to watch it again. Of course I have seen, now, Caitlyn Jenner’s photos and various articles. I thought I would take the chance to share with you my take on a few things. I’m going to stress ~ these are only my feelings, nothing scientific nor am I saying I’m right. I’m not quite sure where to start, but I can say this is going to be at least a two part blog, maybe even more. And of course I would love your input.
Embracing Your Feminine Side
One of the most common thing I hear from my callers is how much more they feel like themselves when they embrace their femininity. The second most common thing I hear, is how they struggle with it. This was repeated throughout the Jenner interview. How do you struggle with something that feels so right? When shown pictures of very happy times, Bruce (at the time of the interview ~ that is what he was being called) and asked how he was feeling at the time, he said that very thing. One of the things that impressed me most is when he took his pony tail down. I believe he actually said, “finally.” As though he was literally, letting his hair down. Even in such an emotional moment, you could see a part of him just relax.
Sharing You Femininity With Others
This is probably one of the most difficult decisions for anyone can make, even if are not sharing something others might have a hard time understanding. Letting others see an unknown side of you is scary. Who you share that with is personal. No one has to come out to the world. You might only share with one other person. It could even be your phonesex Mistress. And I understand those who it is their choose not to share it with others ~ for whatever reason. It’s ok. If I can say anything ~ be comfortable with what you do.
How Far Do You Go With Your Femininity
Not everyone wants to transition completely to a woman. For some, maintaining there masculine persona is simply a must for them. Maybe when they see family out of state they have to be their male ego. Maybe it is work. Others, may choose to live as a woman full-time and openly. However, due to finances, health issues or other reasons, surgery and/or hormones are not possible. Again, what YOU choose to do, must fit you. You must be comfortable with it. Decide what works best for you. And no one is saying that you have to make all the major decisions today. Find a balance that works for you.
In my next blog, I am going to address a few things that tend to get overlapped I find. I’m talking about cross dressing, being transgender, and sexuality. They are not necessarily connected at all. At some point, I would like to discuss the pink elephant in the room ~ the cost of all of it. Let’s face it, being a woman is expensive. And becoming one, even more so. Check back in a day or so and we’ll pick up here.
Until next time,
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
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Embracing your femininity is SO important. We all have multiple sides that makeup the whole and one can only benefit from learning to cherish all of them. Even if you don’t consider yourself a sissy, it is crucial to learn to tap into that which can make you feel SO natural and free. You’ve done a great job explaining this, Kay Marie!
Ms. Kay, this is a GREAT post!
I totally agree with you that no matter how little or how much a man wants to take his feminization, he should do what fits him, not anyone else. AND if he identifies as a she, then those female pronouns should be used. I agree with Ms. Alexis. Great job explaining your take on the transformation. I think everyone should feel free to be who they really are inside!
Ms. Delia
Miss Kay,
I very much loved this posting! Very much indeed cherish your explanation of embracing femininity.
Very much eager to your next posting and learning more. 🙂
xxx
For me it dressing in women’s clothes! The bras/panties/slips/dresses/pumps/
Boots/leggings/yoga pants/makeup/perfumes/lotions to keep my soft girlish smooth skin soft & girlish smelling. Lipstick as well! Dressing in women’s clothes is so much better then boring guy clothes! It’s to much to have surgery to be women. I do this for my own personal enjoyment! Calling the mistresses makes it even better to have then dress me and get me off!!
Great post, and one that definitely needs a follow-up or two. There are some potentially explosive issues here, and the potential for significant disappointment if one moves beyond fantasy into action. The possibilities of rejection or life-changing humiliation are real, and your life out may not be the romantic, accepted vision of a fantasy. Few of us will ever be a Jenner, and there agree a lot of people out there who think that beating up a trans is just another night on the town. If you want to read about some heartbreak google Mike Penner/Christine Daniels.
This is a fantastic post Ms. Kay Marie! I look forward to your follow up posts on this topic. It saddens me how difficult it is for transgendered persons to be who they really want to identify as. I’m thankful for Caitlyn Jenner her bravery is bringing the topic to the mainstream hopefully one day being yourself won’t be such a cultural taboo.
Miss Delia is right. This post rocks! Even as a natural-born woman, I sometimes get so busy that I stop pampering myself and have to get back-to-basics. Yes, there is definitely a cost to everything in a financial sense, and I’m looking forward to seeing your blog on that next week. But no matter if someone wants to dabble in femininity or go all the way, there’s just something beautiful and fun about embracing your feminine side.
Ms. Kay Marie , you are so right. For many, being feminine has to come in stages. Everyone doesn’t have tens of thousands of dollars to transition, nor do they want to. Being feminine can really ruin a budget, especially if you’re a high maintenance woman like me. It is nice to just revel in the most simple things to feel beautiful though, like a manicure/pedicure! I say enjoy the feminine journey, whatever form it takes. My favorite story…the NAVY Seal who became a woman.
Ms Alexis ~ Thank you!! I think it is so important to not only not deny a part of yourself, but nurture it as well
Ms Delia ~ Thank you as well! However someone sees themselves and presents themselves to others is how they should be accepted.
Aww ~ you are such a sweetie!! Thank you! I hope you will like each one!!!
Peter ~ You don’t need to have surgery to be a woman, your Mistresses take great care of you!
Katie ~ I do not think the Jenner transformation is anything close to the rule. If anything it is a rare exception!! The one advantage to her ~ she got a conversation started. I can totally understand for the some the reality of how munch their lives will change is enough to keep them from considering to come out. Stories like you referred hurt my heart and really piss me off.
Ms Nadia ~ Thank you! I completely agree with you on bringing the topic mainstream. In someways, Caitlyn Jenner has had it easier. She has had resources others couldn’t ever have. But in many ways, being in that spotlight, made it much harder for her I am sure. we all have our struggles and to be brave enough to face them in front of everyone deserves respect if nothing else.
Ms Amber ~ I agree! I am just finishing the post on the cost now. It’s expensive to be a woman!!! But I hope if nothing else, no one is discouraged because they do not have the funds to be a glamour girl!
Ms Lena ~ I just saw a promo for that story. I can’t wait to see it. I think finances and resources are a major factor for many ~ and rightfully so. It’s expensive! You might be a little high maintenance ~ but you are oh so worth it!
Yes the feminity feels great.I do enjoy being submissive.I do agree that I want to keep my masculinity-cherish , protect, be attentive, and care for women.They are so beautiful intellectually, physically and emotionally.
Gigi ~ You are ever so sweet ~ hugs!