Hi Everyone and Happy May! May is Masturbation Month and I am so excited about that! Yes, I masturbate too – A Lot! (especially right after I am waxed – lol) So let’s have a little chat on the subject!
To Lube or Not To Lube
So which is it for you? Do you like lube? A generous amount? When I am just letting my fingers to the walking, so to speak, I like my own saliva. However, there are times lube is needed or wanted. There are many different kinds – if you use toys makes sure you check to see what kind you can use. Little overwhelmed by all the choices? Check out my sexy friend Ms Constance’s Lube Reviews on her blog intelligentfemdom.com.
Toys?
Speaking of one of those times that lube my be needed ~ when toys are used is definitely one. There are times I just love to use my dual action vibrator – nicknamed my BFF and sometimes it’s just a nice strong clit vib like my rechargeable hitachi. I happen to know that many of you, like myself, will slip in an anal plug before you play. Vibrating or no, there’s just something about a plug that adds to solo play like nothing else.
Location Location Location
Ok, you’ve decided on lube. You picked a toy. Now, you need to decide where you want to get down to business! Shower stroking is common. No mess to clean up and you are already naked. In or on your bed is comfortable. There is your living room – you can do some living in it! And, lets’s not forget a much needed break at your work desk! These are only few ~ the possibilities are endless!
I would love to hear where and how you play. Guided masturbation is so much fun with your Mistress. And if you are curious – I love to watch!
Until next time.
Ms Kay Marie
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
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For me masterbating I wear my bra/pumps/lipstick/slip or my girlish pink turtle neck sweater. Spray my self in perfume,put on girlish Victoria’s lotion all over my body, use my lube,hitachi magic wand and fleshjack and listen to audios where the mistresses turn/dress guys into girls. It’s only way I get hard and off.
Happy Masturbation May, Ms Kay Marie! I hope everyone is doing their best to celebrate in their own special way. I will happily add to the festivities by sharing my own thoughts and experiences. One of my favorite things to do is enjoy a little masturbation in one of the bathroom stalls at work. I love the sounds of other people walking by as I enjoy myself to the fullest. Kinky dirty fun! I’m sure our subbies have their own stories to share as well.
All of it. Hee hee. Mixing it up is what makes masturbating even more fun than it already is. I’m definitely a lube guy, although saliva works well too. Not up for the dry friction any more. As for location, well, frankly, just about anywhere will do. For especially naughty fun, the back seat of a car, like Alexis the bathroom at work, or close and lock that office door and treat myself to a call. And then there’s all kinds of fun toys and implements. A couple that really get me going are one of my pocket pussies, thinking how that’s the only pussy mistress will let me have, and a condom. It actually feels pretty good and helps with the cleanup (although you know my motto is eat it or wear it). And pumping into a pair of silky panties….mmmm hmmm. Great post. 🙂
Oh Masturbation May… My favourite month! 😉 I am a big, big, BIG fan of masturbation and as much as I love listening to my callers stroke their cocks, guiding them in marathon teasing sessions and watching them jerk off for me on webcam… I absolutely ADORE a little touchy touchy of my own. 😉 I love long, lingering sessions… Teasing soft touches, bringing myself right to the brink and then backing down before, at long last pushing myself over that cliff… Who says edging is just for men? 😉
Great post Ms. Kay and yes… Happy Masturbation May!!!
I’m with you, I think lube is a necessity, especially for the guys. But toys… can be so fun and exciting… I can’t imagine anyone not adding those sensational pleasures to their masturbation. As far as location goes, you are so right… We all need a bit of challenging danger with our safety, now don’t we? Seriously, who hasn’t masturbated at their desk at least once? 😉
Wait. A Mistress talking about masturbation? Surely not! 😉 I too think location is key. I have a naughty boy who loves to masturbate on cam in his car on mild days. Luckily he knows a few places off the beaten (lol) path! Even so, it can be really exciting to masturbate in semi-public places!
Peter ~ Wow! You are a sexy dolled up sissy. And I love that you listen to the Mistresses even when you are not with them.
Ms Alexis ~ That is hot! I love the thought of hearing others and knowing they may hear your small gasps that you can’t contain. Gets me turned on just thinking about it.
bfla ~ Oh I so know how you love your pocket pussy and panties. It gets me going again just thinking about you having to watch with only your pocket pussy – lol. Oh such hot fun.
Ms Rita ~ You are so right. I love edging and teasing ~ a little touchy touchy of my own. Especially after my waxing!
Ms Christine ~ I had to laugh at your last comment. I can’t tell you how many times I did when I was still at my office. I’m sure my assistant heard me a few times. I’m smiling just thinking about it!
Ms Piper ~ Oh my, you must have so much fun with your commuter cummer! And you get to watch on cam ~ even better!
Thank you for this post 🙂 I definitely appreciate the link to the Lube reviews—I had it a while ago and misplaced it (it’s the first place I send my fiance when he wants to try a new lube or a different lube sensation for our strap-on play) I’m with you and Ms. Piper that location is important—in private, I prefer my shower or jacuzzi, in semi-public, I prefer below the water line on a beach, or underneath a long, white table cloth at a restaurant. No one around me can see anything, but I can feel EVERYTHING 🙂
Ms Lilly ~ You are welcome! It is awesome that Ms Constance keeps up all in the know. I too love the shower! I think I am going to try at the table sometime ~ maybe my waiter will get a little bit of an extra tip.