Are you into coerced bi fantasies? If so, you and I need to talk for a moment. I enjoy watching one man suck another man’s cock just as much as the next girl, but I have to admit that I do take exception to the word “coerced” in this type of fantasy.
I Will Never Coerce You To Do Anything
You see, I will never coerce you or force you to do anything. That’s not my style and not in my nature. I think we should look a little closer at the term “coerced bi,” anyway. Men’s cocksucking and anal sex fantasies with other men are often labeled this way, but I believe that’s very misleading.
Let’s be clear: I know you want to suck a cock for me. I’ll even let you! I’ll encourage you to do it for me. But I won’t coerce you, mostly because I don’t need to. You don’t need to be coerced. You just want permission to live out your cocksucking and/or anal sex fantasies with other men.
Perhaps you tell yourself that it’s coerced bi in order to make yourself feel better about your desires. If you’re not 100% comfortable with them, it might be easier to tell yourself that Mistress is “making” you do these things. You’re not choosing them yourself; she is using her dominance to ensure that you do them.
It’s Not Really Coerced Bi
But really, you need to be honest with yourself. You can call it “coerced bi” until the cows come home, but it’s not, and we both know it. You’d probably beg me to let you suck a cock if I told you “no” the first time. So just be honest with yourself about your desires, and you’ll find that your brain will become more accepting of them over time. You won’t always have to wrestle with your fantasies.
Now, all that being said, there is nothing at all wrong with having bisexual fantasies. They’re some of the most common fantasies out there. Some studies have said that foot fetish is the most popular fetish in the world, but I’d go so far as to say it’s actually cocksucking that’s the most common fetish! Even if it isn’t, it’s still very popular among men. And I’m not complaining because I enjoy facilitating such fantasies.
Be Honest About Your Cocksucking Desires
So I’m here to encourage you to stop thinking of your fantasies as “coerced bi” ones. Just be honest with yourself and with me about your cocksucking desires. The more honest and authentic you can be about your fantasies, the better they’ll be when we talk about them together.
So if you want to suck a cock, own it! Be proud of your status as a would-be cocksucker. Hold your head high when you think of the way you want to be fucked in the ass by another man. Never be ashamed of the things that turn you on. Think of me if you need inspiration. Have I ever been embarrassed by the things I like? Hell, no, and you shouldn’t be, either.
If you have a bisexual fantasy you’d like to talk about, just let me know. If you need help with accepting yourself, I can help you with that, too. It’s important that you understand that your desires are normal and acceptable. So if you’d like to talk more about any bicurious fantasies you might have, just give me a ring. I enjoy talking to you about them!
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
This is so true that for a male it’s not being forced or coerced. It maybe “encouraged” but more than likely the male as you put it Mistress Kay Marie looking for permission to suck a Cock. Also, a male that is even has a desire to suck a Cock isn’t Straight and once they suck a Cock they definitely aren’t Straight. There’s nothing wrong with not being Straight. Honesty with themselves will help them not only be more confident but also help them enjoy their experiences with Men.
Wow Ms Kay Marie, I love this post, I totally agree with you on this subject, I never really understood the whole coerced bi thing, I totally agree , I would be begging to share a cock or do it in front of a lady like you ,no coercing needed lol but I do understand where some sissies would like some coercing, to give themselves an excuse to suck cock lol thanks for the post xoxos
Can I be real for a second? This was a bad take on forced bi. Why do mistresses insist that all forcedbi fans are closeted gays? It’s very frustrating! They don’t do this with any other kink or fetish. Imagine if! Imagine if a domme was like, “No, you aren’t turned on by me locking you in a chastity cage. No, you’re lying to yourself. Just admit it. What you really like is not cumming. Not stroking is your true secret desire. You sneak off to be alone just so you can not touch our cock. This cage is just an excuse so you can blame me for your hidden fantasy of leaving your dick entirely alone.” It’s laughable! Or take bondage. “No, you don’t really want to be tied up by a wicked domme. What you like is just laying very still. Laying still turns you on so much. You don’t need me. Just be proud and go lay still on your own. I will never use ropes to make you lay still but you don’t need them! Embrace your stillness!” The whole point of bondage is the struggle to escape and the dynamic with the person who is holding your freedom in her hand. Or take cuckolding, “Nooo. It’s not hot to see another man f*cking your wife. No, you just can’t admit that you don’t like sex. Sex is just awful and gross and you’re so relieved that someone else can take care of it so you can dream about sports cars instead. Over in that cuck chair you’re pretending to be interested in the action on the bed but your head is thinking about football and woodworking. Just be proud and admit it!” It would be a complete joke if a domme tried to deconstruct these kinks into their opposites. So why do they do it with forcedbi? It’s some weird, 2008 Tyra Banks morality mentality that homosexuality is sacred and it must be protected at all costs. If a poor guy is in the closet, we must help him come out and embrace it! I mean, sure whatever. If that’s what floats YOUR boat, then do that. But do it somewhere else. Don’t impose your morality on our kink. The forcedbi category is not for closeted bi or gay men. Closeted gay men do not sneak away and go watch women tell them to suck a dick. TRUST ME. I have a gay roommate, a gay best friend, a gay brother and many gay and bi friends. They don’t need a woman. They go straight for the gay porn. They don’t need anyone’s permission. The forcedbi category is for straight men who feel a submissive thrill when women mess with them sexually. Whether its enticed, seduced, encouraged, coerced, or forced, it’s hot when a woman gets in your head and makes you do and even enjoy things you never would have otherwise. Feeling her power over you to change your very core and identity and attractions. That’s the kink! If that’s not appealing to you as a domme or if that’s against your moral code, then that’s fine. But don’t try to ruin it for those of us who are into it. Don’t say, “there’s no kink here. This is just vanilla gay men being gay in a very ordinary and acceptable way.” That’s a boner killer.
Can I be real for a second? I said they were my “thoughts” not my “moral code”. I don’t know where you are coming from with this. I am not ruining it at all for anyone. All the gay men you know, they are just that …gay and you know that they are. I know many many more who like to be teased and coerced by a femdome. By a woman. Sure they might watch the gay porn on occasion, but they like the interaction with a woman involved. You seem angry. And if you are angry or annoyed then you missed the whole overtone of the post. It is fun and teasing ….. the only judgement was from you.