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If you’re a guy who enjoys CBT, I have a question for you. What’s your favorite way to do it yourself?

I know that for most of you, having a Mistress to perform CBT on you would be the ideal thing. But unfortunately, we can’t have what we want all the time, so sometimes, you’re stuck doing it all by yourself. Well, almost all by yourself. If you get me on the line, I can definitely help you and give you ideas of what you can try.

DIY Cock And Ball Torment

To me, helping a guy on the phone with CBT is similar to helping him with guided masturbation instructions. The guy in question already knows how to stroke and/or torment himself. But what he wants is a sexy voice on the other end of the phone, encouraging him and giving him ideas of things to try that he perhaps has never even thought of before!

And that means I’m perfect for the job because I’m great at thinking of all sorts of things you can do with your genitals. Ideas come about that come to me at the strangest times. I might be walking through the grocery store and think, “It sure would be fun to use a ruler on someone’s balls right now.” It’s amazing how that works, but I’m not complaining. I rather enjoy having those thoughts without anyone around me being any the wiser!

A Self CBT Favorite

One of my favorite ideas for self CBT requires a little preparation in advance. You’ll need to go to the store and get yourself a pair of women’s pantyhose (don’t worry, you won’t be wearing them–this time, anyway) and a tennis ball. That’s all you need, though.

Then, for this cock and ball torment idea, you’ll need to drop the tennis ball into the one of the toes of the pantyhose. After that, tie the pantyhose around your waist using the legs. Go and stand near a wall or door or kneel on the floor. Then, you bounce the ball off the wall, door, or floor and let it come back and nail you in the cock and/or balls. Pretty diabolical, don’t you think?

Mixing It With JOI

The above idea is a fun way to enjoy CBT without it being too, too painful. And that’s good because I know some of you can be intimidated by the idea of having your cock and balls tormented. So I like to go easy on those of you who are unsure and much harder on those of you who already love it.

Another way that I tend to make it easier on you is that I don’t just give CBT instructions. I mix in some JOI (jerk-off instructions), too. The mixture of pleasure and pain seems to be much more intense than just pleasure or pain alone would be.

So that’s one of my (many) ideas for CBT! What do you think about it? Would you give it a try yourself? Would you buy an extra pair of pantyhose to wear while you were doing it, lol?

Tell me what you think! And if you have any DIY ideas for CBT, I’d love to hear those, too. Maybe you can give me some new things to add to my repertoire. Drop me a comment or give me a call to sound off. And, of course, if you’re in the mood for a little CBT phone sex, you should definitely call me because I’d love to have you playing tennis with your dick!

Until next time!


Ms Kay Marie