If you’re a guy who enjoys CBT, I have a question for you. What’s your favorite way to do it yourself?
I know that for most of you, having a Mistress to perform CBT on you would be the ideal thing. But unfortunately, we can’t have what we want all the time, so sometimes, you’re stuck doing it all by yourself. Well, almost all by yourself. If you get me on the line, I can definitely help you and give you ideas of what you can try.
DIY Cock And Ball Torment
To me, helping a guy on the phone with CBT is similar to helping him with guided masturbation instructions. The guy in question already knows how to stroke and/or torment himself. But what he wants is a sexy voice on the other end of the phone, encouraging him and giving him ideas of things to try that he perhaps has never even thought of before!
And that means I’m perfect for the job because I’m great at thinking of all sorts of things you can do with your genitals. Ideas come about that come to me at the strangest times. I might be walking through the grocery store and think, “It sure would be fun to use a ruler on someone’s balls right now.” It’s amazing how that works, but I’m not complaining. I rather enjoy having those thoughts without anyone around me being any the wiser!
A Self CBT Favorite
One of my favorite ideas for self CBT requires a little preparation in advance. You’ll need to go to the store and get yourself a pair of women’s pantyhose (don’t worry, you won’t be wearing them–this time, anyway) and a tennis ball. That’s all you need, though.
Then, for this cock and ball torment idea, you’ll need to drop the tennis ball into the one of the toes of the pantyhose. After that, tie the pantyhose around your waist using the legs. Go and stand near a wall or door or kneel on the floor. Then, you bounce the ball off the wall, door, or floor and let it come back and nail you in the cock and/or balls. Pretty diabolical, don’t you think?
Mixing It With JOI
The above idea is a fun way to enjoy CBT without it being too, too painful. And that’s good because I know some of you can be intimidated by the idea of having your cock and balls tormented. So I like to go easy on those of you who are unsure and much harder on those of you who already love it.
Another way that I tend to make it easier on you is that I don’t just give CBT instructions. I mix in some JOI (jerk-off instructions), too. The mixture of pleasure and pain seems to be much more intense than just pleasure or pain alone would be.
So that’s one of my (many) ideas for CBT! What do you think about it? Would you give it a try yourself? Would you buy an extra pair of pantyhose to wear while you were doing it, lol?
Tell me what you think! And if you have any DIY ideas for CBT, I’d love to hear those, too. Maybe you can give me some new things to add to my repertoire. Drop me a comment or give me a call to sound off. And, of course, if you’re in the mood for a little CBT phone sex, you should definitely call me because I’d love to have you playing tennis with your dick!
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
Mistress Vivian was the one who had me doing the most diy cbt. Misspeak, forget to say Mistress, or thank you and you were delivering swats to your balls on camera. Another she had me do similar to your pantyhose. Take a long sock, like a dress sock. She had me use an apple, but a tennis ball would have been my choice. Hold the end in your teeth so that the apple was right at ball height. But the apple on something high like on a dresser, hands on your head, close your eyes and step backwards.
You can not hide on camera
Thanks to this post I have a new entry on my lists of fun things to do. I saw it the same day you posted it, and I asked my dom wife if she had any experience with guys who were into ball busting and if any of them weren’t strictly masochists. She said that she did have experience and none of them were very masochistic. I then questioned why anyone would want to be hit in the balls? She said that the pain wasn’t as intolerable as I thought it would be and is actually quite erotic and that being stimulated to orgasm after having your balls busted makes the pleasure of that orgasm more intense.
I was more than a little skeptical about this and then she said, if I was willing, she could prove it to me. I doubt I would have let anyone else do this to me but she was very persuasive (she promised me that no matter the outcome, I would get to lick up a load of cum from her feet.) so, with safe word at the ready, I allowed her to put me in bondage so that I couldn’t move, and my balls were fully exposed to the blows that were about to be administered. She used her gorgeous feet to administer a quick kick and I felt a jolt of pain but, very surprisingly to me, I didn’t use our safe word and then came another kick and another and still another. I can’t believe I didn’t use the safe word but, I was shocked beyond belief to find that I did NOT want her to stop! After a few more kicks, I actually begged her to keep going and she did. I don’t know how many kicks she gave me but I’m pretty sure it was at least 30. After she released me, she allowed me to masturbate and, sure enough, the orgasm was extremely intense as I shot an enormous load all over her feet and then licked up every single drop of it!
I now find myself doing it to myself and I absolutely love it! I tried Mistress Vivian’s technique that wellspanked mentioned but discovered that most of the energy was lost as the apple went down before coming back up. So, I’m putting the apple in a sock, standing with my legs very far apart, adjusting the height of it to where the apple will strike my balls with the greatest possible effect, pinning the sock against my waist at that spot with my left hand, and then, with my right hand, forcefully swinging that apple directly onto my balls! I did this today for the first time and I did it a lot, more than 60 times! Then I masturbated to a huge orgasm with another large load of cum to lick up and savor! I am definitely going to be doing this a lot more!!!
I can’t thank you enough for introducing a new exciting and fun activity to my sex life, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you so very, very much!!!
Thank you, wellspanked and Miss Kay BOTH for the diabolical ideas for CBT! Obviously I’m stealing them both! *giggle*