Hey, guys, let’s talk tease and denial vs. tease and delay today, why don’t we? It may not seem like there’s a huge distinction between the two, but the gulf that separates them is actually pretty vast.

In fact, my one and only negative review here at LDW is based on this distinction. (In honor of my anniversary month, we’ll take this little walk down memory lane.) What happened was, I had someone who called me for tease and denial. So I took him at his word! Because this was several years ago and I was newer, I didn’t think to clarify what he meant. So he got tease and denial, but what he wanted was tease and delay instead.

What Is The Difference Between Tease And Denial And Tease And Delay?

So let’s talk about the difference between them first. Then, I’ll elaborate more on my one negative review. The difference between the two is all in what happens at the end. The cock teasing aspect is more or less the same. But tease and delay just means your orgasm is delayed for a while with extra teasing and edging. Tease and denial, on the other hand, means total orgasm denial at the end.

So you can see why it’s very important to be absolutely clear about what you want. One of these things nets you an orgasm. The other does not!

Angry About Orgasm Denial

So the aforementioned caller told me he wanted tease and denial. Now, that’s what he said, but it’s not what he meant. He meant that he wanted tease and delay. He was expecting an orgasm at the end. And I will take partial responsibility, in that I didn’t clarify for sure what he was asking for. But I took him at his word and assumed he knew what he would get. (That’s what I get for assuming.)

So I gave him a wonderful tease and denial phone sex call. No orgasm at the end. And so he took to the review site and wrote an angry review about me.

Now, I’m not upset about this. It happened many years ago, for one. And furthermore, I wasn’t even upset when it happened. Just amused! It’s amazing how crazy guys get about their orgasms.

“MILF” Is Not A Slur

In this review, I distinctly remember this guy calling me “the MILF,” in the same tone that you’d use when saying something like, “the bitch.” “The MILF wouldn’t let me cum!” or something like that.

This amused me further because on what planet is the term “MILF” a slur? Not this one! I wear the MILF badge with pride. No one is ever going to make me feel bad about being one, lol. Oh, no, I’m a mature lady you’d like to fuck? How offensive.

But this guy will certainly never get to fuck me, and neither will any of you other tease and denial lovers. But that’s okay with you guys, isn’t it? You had no intention of fucking me, anyway, just of submitting to me.

I will give you a word of warning, though. If you do want tease and delay, please specify that at the beginning of your call! Nowadays, I do always ask for clarification when a guy says he wants tease and denial. But to be absolutely sure you’ll get what you want, you should use your words and tell me exactly what you’re looking for. Oh, and remember that “MILF” is not a bad word, lol!

So what do you guys think? Do you prefer tease and denial or tease and delay? Or a fun mixture of the two? Leave me a comment or give me a call to let me know your opinion!

Until next time!

Hugs,

Ms Kay Marie