Are you a cuckold? Or would you like to become one one day? If so, today’s blog post is for you.
One of the most common things I hear from the guys I talk to is that someone wants to be a cuckold. But the problem is, they don’t know how to be in a cuckold relationship, or even how to broach the subject with their significant other. Or, in some cases, they may not even have a significant other at the moment to talk to about their desires. So if any of these three things describes you and your situation, what are you to do about it?
How To Be In A Cuckold Relationship
The most important thing when it comes to being in a cuckold relationship is having a compatible partner. This is often where people get tripped up. They want to push their idea of the ideal cuckold relationship on their existing partners, and that doesn’t always work out well. In fact, the unfortunate truth is that not every woman wants to be a hot wife or have a cuckold husband. So the very first thing you should do when seeking to be in a cuckolding relationship is to find someone who is on the same–or at least a similar–page as you.
You can find women who are into this sort of thing on fetish websites and in swingers’ communities, for example. Sometimes, you may even get lucky and meet them out in the wild! You might be able to mention it to them and have them get very excited at the idea.
Once you have the right partner, you have to set down the rules. You must do this because that’s the way to ensure that everything goes smoothly. Is the cuckold allowed to have other partners, or is only the Cuckoldress allowed to do that? Can the cuck masturbate? Does the cuck get any release at all? All these things should be considered and codified within the relationship. This is to make sure that everyone knows what is expected of them at all times.
How To Talk About Cuckolding With Your Partner
If you already have a partner and would like to discuss cuckolding with them, the first thing you’re going to have to remember is that you need to dip your toes into the water very slowly. Think about it. You’ve had however many months or years to consolidate your own cuckolding fantasies in your head. But if this is not something your partner has ever considered, then this is the first time she’s ever thought of it! Overwhelming her with your many ideas of what a cuckold relationship should involve will almost certainly turn her off from the idea.
Instead, you should mention it gently. Do you ever discuss sexual turn-ons with her? If so, maybe throw in there that the idea of watching her with another man turns you on. By all means, if she has questions about this, then answer them! But don’t overwhelm her with information from the start. Let her think about it in her own time. She can come to you with any questions she might have later.
You might actually be surprised at how well the situation turns out, if you’re tactful and delicate about it. If you need some more advice in this vein, I would welcome your call. I love helping people explore their cuckolding desires, and I would be very happy to help you figure out how to talk to your wife or girlfriend about them. I love spreading the joy of cuckolding and cuckold phone sex, after all!
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
