Ms Kay Marie
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Hi Everyone ~ hope this finds you well. Lately I have had several conversations with a few of my friends that are more, shall we say, undercover crossdressers and sissies. They are individuals with one identity in their daily lives and another in their hearts. And they are always looking for ways to bring more of their feminine side into their daily lives.So here’s a few things that we have shared.
Feeling All Girlie
There is nothing as girlie as a bra and panties. Â Panties can be easy enough to wear under male underwear. Â Shopping for a bras can be different. Â A little while back I shared some Helpful Hints for Crossdressers. One of the most popular suggestions was trying a bralette. I am happy to report that many have found these to not only be sexy little things but very practical. They fit better, for most, yet have a the feel of satin and lace. And best of all, the can usually be worn quite discreetly under daily men’s wear.
Putting on a Pretty Face
Speaking of things that can be worn discreetly, make up is often a challenge. As a gal who doesn’t typically wear much make up on a day to day basis, you might not think I have much an opinion on the matter. Yet those of you who know me, know I have an opinion on everything – lol. The best sissy make up  for everyday I can suggest is a tinted moisturizer or BB cream. Either will provide the thrill of the morning beauty ritual, will be good for your skin with their SPF and moisturizers, and best yet, with the right shade, totally discreet.
Silky Sexy Legs
The last thing is a bit of clothing. Now, considering the time of year, I love to tell everyone to feed their stocking fetish! Wear them under your “man suit”. Try the new patterns, or tights or even opt for a pair of leggings. Regardless, don’t you just love the feel of them? They just make you feel sexy – instantly.
I would love to hear how you all get your girl on ~ when you can’t really get your girl on. And I’d like to hear if you try any of these.
Stay Sexy,
Ms Kay Marie
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Bralettes the best to wear. I love them and leggings are great and they are warm in cold climates. I really love them and they go right up to where you have it tucked away.
I’ve worn panties under my pants and I was hard with soft,silky ,satin fabric against me all day. I didn’t tell anyone but that was thrill. I haven’t worn bra yet but would really want to. I just don’t want anyone at work to find out. I did wear yoga pants,boy shorts, ankle boots,bra underneath my unisex halfzip sweater when I had makeup application done to me and that was a thrill. Women at salon didn’t seem to notice not say anything:( I was trying not to show hardon as it was struggle. After I went home and got off. I dress at home alone at night after work. I wear bras/panties/slips/heels/dresses/sweaters/lipstick/lotions/perfumes.
Now at salon girls are wearing leggings with knee high boots and I want to start wearing that. I so want girls at salon to feminize me and make me their cream puff sissy but they aren’t interested:( I waiting on knee high boots to try on with my leggings. I keep this all to myself. I don’t want anyone to know. But wearing women’s clothes/lingerie/boots heels is way better then wearing guy clothes. I think I would’ve been better of a girl then guy as they have more fun. That’s why I’m going to do feminiziation circuit with 10-15 mistresses so you can dress and turn me into a girl as well as your cream puff sissy. If I can’t get women I’ll let you dress and turn me into one.
What a wonderful post with great tips, Ms Kay Marie! Love to hear all the ways that “undercover” Sissies get their girl on. I’m sure this will inspire them adding a few more ways to get that sexy reminder , all day long, of what a sissy they are. Not too mention how easy it can be to feel as girlie as possible. Awesome! 🙂
KayMarie, such an informative post! There are quite a few sissies out there ,who want to know how to be more feminine. For the daring sissy, wearing sexy lingerie under their clothes at work is very exciting. I know that some of my sissies like to relax in lacy lounge wear, once they get home. I think sissies should try different sexy clothing to find out exactly what makes them feel the most girly.
Bralettes are perfect for little sissies with little tits I agree Ms Kay Marie. I wear tinter BB creme as well. There are the things that sissy is made from, listening to the Mistress demands and orders. Often a sissy wonders, how do I get my breasts to grow without hormones? Simple, get a noogleberry breast enhancer. Use it every day and concentrate on creating the breasts you have always desired.
Yes, being under cover is good!
There is nothing like wearing a thought shiny pair of sheer to waist pantyhose under a suit at a function, work or elsewhere! Just the thought of no one knowing what you have on “underneath” is a rush! No underwear of course! 🙂
Mandy ~ We have talked about bralettes and I am so happy you have given them a try. And leggings are the best this time of year for those of us that live where it gets colder. I have to say, I found some thigh high tights that I am dying to try too. Let me know if you try the tinted moisturizer.
Peter ~ We will dress you up anytime. The ladies at my salon wear some of the greatest tights & leggings. They wear all black as their work wardrobe. I have seen some of the best patterns with various shades of black & a mix of textures. Love them with boots and a tunic.
Thank you Ms Kaylee! I have quite a few give the bralettes & leggings a try and a few that want to give the tinted moisturizer a go. I love hearing back how excited they are over their ability to get their girl on without anyone knowing!
Ms Lena ~ I couldn’t agree more. I think the thrill of getting their girl on at work is supper hot for them (especially those that are in a supervisory position) Thank you fro the suggestion of trying different sexy clothes. I encourage that with sissies who seem to be stuck on one style but can’t find the right fit.
Ms Cassandra ~ Thank you for this suggestion!! I know exactly who I am going to pass this along to!! I’m a tinted moisturizer and BB cream wearer myself. Love to know I have such gorgeous sexy company.
Johnny ~ There is just something so intensely hot about being undercover. And of course, I love the no underwear ~ personally that is the way I go. (wink) Stay sexy!!
Thank you for responding so quickly Kay Marie!!
That’s the whole point of being under cover isn’t it? It wouldn’t be as much fun if everybody knew, would it? 🙂
That’s what makes it so sexy! Just like having a “secret” desire to make love to a big thick cock and a set of heavy cum filled balls with your mouth! Hmmm, pantyhose and cocks! 2 things I think about quite often. And nobody knows…I think? 🙂
The leggings with knee high boots are hot! I ordered knee women’s high boots as I have leggings. I can’t wait to try them on and see how I look. I look better in women’s clothes then I do in guys clothes. I’m willing to wear yoga pants/leggings in public but with me working with guys all the time and in family business I can’t:( would women notice if I work ankle boots? I have pair and wouldn’t mind wearing them. I’d do it at salon. I think done of women at salon are open in doing makeover to me. I’ve done it before as I’ve worn yoga pants/boyshorts/bra/unisex half zip sweater with ankle boots. They didn’t notice I was wearing ankle boots/yoga pants. It wasn’t big deal to them. It would be fun if they were forceful in giving me makeover.
I don’t know that I am a total “sissy” but I have come to learn that I do have some leanings and was undercover, even from myself, until I had a sort of epiphany around college time. A female friend (not girlfriend) simply and sort of out of the blue told me she wanted me to “try something on for her”. She had one of those silky half slips, handed it to me an sort of orchestrated herself in that bubbly, light but firm, soft but in charge sort of way that females can. Whereas another guy might have laughed or said “hell no” or blown it off in some way – I was stuck like a deer in headlights. Just stuck, frozen. She ushered me into her bathroom handing me the slip without letting me get in a word. I felt like a very little boy and she had (maybe not even knowing) touched something deep in me. I don’t know that this is explainable but I felt unequal to her and as I had to do as told. It was a deep and powerful feeling. I felt like she had “seen me” and I was not at that moment “undercover”.
What a great post, Ms. Kay Marie!
As spring approaches, I think more and more sissies and cross dressers will be exploring the colors of spring, and will bloom for us! I really loved your makeup tip especially. A great BB or CC cream is perfect. (remember a CC cream can have those anti aging properties for smoother skin) A cross dresser can wear this, and I doubt many could notice!
🙂 I enjoyed this.
Ms. Delia
Great post Ms Kay Marie! I totally agree about the creams … because every crossdresser or sissy needs her own beauty regime even if it has to be …. mmmmmmm, discrete! You know here’s something else … a girly girl might not be able to wear lipstick, but I know she can use something like flavored chapstick … there are all sorts of fun flavors and with each little taste it reminder her who she really is! ~smiles~
Great sissy tips Ms. Kay Marie. There are lots of men who get a secret thrill wearing girly, pretty and silky things under their man clothes. I love to put secret sissies in silky tap pants and matching camisole, sharing their morning ritual is even better! There’s nothing like slipping into your sissy persona as you get ready for the day by incorporating skin and lingerie rituals. Of course, they need soft silky legs under those stockings!
Great post Ms. Kay, and great advice about the bralette. I’ll have to keep that one in mind myself for some of my gurls who are just starting out.
And one thing I tell my sissies in training, who are still on the fence about getting a bra, is that bras are uniquely feminine. It is one of the few pieces of clothing that does not have a male counterpart. Women have panties to men’s boxers or tightie-whities, and stockings to socks. But there is no male version of the bra, it’s all GURL!
Ms Christine ~ Oh I so love my bras. I will admit I am guilty of putting that love on my sissies. I just love when they are able to find a version that suits them and their bodies so they can love them too.
Ms Layla ~ I agree! One of the things I hear the most isn’t just the “things” that us girls get to have but the “things” we get to do. Finding ways for those men to incorporate some of those “things” into their routine is such a thrill.
Ms Olivia ~ I am a chapstick girl myself so I love that suggestion. And with so many options out there, it is easy to find one that will keep her lips kissable (and suckable) at all times. (wink)
Ms Delia ~ Skin is so important to take care of. It is so easy to do and can make all the difference. I have seen some sissies with skin I just envy! I’m trying to get them to share their secrets with me.LOL
Wow your sissies will certainly be able to get their gurl on undercover in a wonderful way under your tutelage Ms. Kay Marie! The back smoother bras work very well under a shirt and can be worn rather discreetly underneath. I like to send My gurls off to the office with panties and thigh highs on I think it puts them in the femme frame of mind in a covert way and it’s fun having a kinky secret you can share together:). Great post!
Ms Jenna ~ I love the suggestion of a back smoother bra! Thank you!! And sharing a kinky secret is oh so hot!