So I’ve been thinking a lot about guided masturbation recently. My post from back in mid-April, Gooners Vs. Chronic Masturbators generated a lot of interest! I had quite a few calls about it, actually. And in thinking about that, I’ve started thinking about something else, namely guided masturbation vs. gooning (hence the title of the post).
From the outside looking in, these two things may look pretty similar. But when you really get into the heads of guided masturbation guys vs. gooners, you find that the motivations are definitely rather different.
If You Enjoy Guided Masturbation
If you’re a guy who enjoys guided masturbation–or jerk-off instructions (JOI)–you probably have a little bit of a submissive streak. Maybe it isn’t very big. Maybe it doesn’t come out very often. But I bet it exists somewhere inside you.
If you enjoy JOI, you probably like the idea of letting go and letting someone else tell you what to do. That’s what guided masturbation is all about, after all. You probably also like trying new things. Experimentation is the name of the game, so you’re likely the kind of guy who’s open to new experiences. Which, in my opinion, is great!
If you like having your masturbation directed by a beautiful MILF, you’re probably learning all about orgasm edging and how it makes your masturbation experience much better. If you get really deep into it, you might start practicing things like semen retention or short-term orgasm denial to really intensify everything.
If You’re A Gooner
If you’re a gooner, though, chances are that very little of the above applies to you. You probably don’t want to be guided through a masturbation routine. And you probably also don’t care anything for being controlled, either. You may not even call yourself submissive at all.
You’re not necessarily a chronic masturbator, either, as I covered in my previous blog on the subject. As a gooner, you’re much more likely to be into showing off your gooning skills. Maybe you like hopping on cam on Skype and showing me how long you last. You’re probably already an expert in edging and short-term denial. In fact, a lot of your motivation may come from the idea of “Hey, look at me! Look at all I can endure while masturbating!”
And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Different people are motivated by different things, and that’s wonderful. It takes all kinds to make the world go ’round, as they say.
It Doesn’t Matter About The Whys Of Your Masturbation Routine
Ultimately, the “why” of your masturbation routine doesn’t matter that much. All that matters is that you’re doing it and that what you’ve chosen for yourself is fulfilling for you. That’s all that’s important here.
So which camp would you say you fall under? Are you a die-hard gooner or a guided masturbation fanatic? Or are you somewhere in between? Or maybe you’re a different kind of stroker who doesn’t fall under either of these two categories. I’d love to hear your assessment of yourself and your masturbation habits. So why not give me a call or drop me a comment to tell me more? I do so love learning about my readers and what they think and feel about the things I write!
I’ll leave you guys with this thought: All strokers are valid, and all reasons for stroking are good reasons. Even chronic masturbators are valid people with good reasons for doing what they do. The only things that are truly important are, as I said before, that you enjoy what you’re doing and that you do it in relative moderation, for moderation in everything is best. Have a good week, guys!
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
